Thursday, January 21, 2010
Often..things are easier said than done..but..
To all my dearest friends..it seems like a breaking up season to me lately..many of my friends call-ed me to share with me their heart breaking news..Somehow..It reminds me the feeling of losing someone you love..I exactly know how they are feeling..because I once experienced break up too! I know many people thought I got Zillions of ex boyfriend. But hellow!...I only have one! I am someone..who seek for long lasting relationship..I want a husband..not a boyfriend.So don't have this wrong impression of me :) Some of my close friends thought I got many ex boyfriends too.. -__-" lol. See..this is how "much" you know about me..lol
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The feeling of losing someone is..
like as if you are left swimming alone in the ocean? No one to hold on too? The feeling is super duper "lost." Like as if you can't breathe without the person? Or don't know what to do next..
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I don't know if others feel the same too? because I got friends who change gf/bf like "changing clothes"? every now and then change. Does it means that they don't feel sad at all? I dono.. :(
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But no matter how sad "the feeling" can be..we can't live in the fairytale dream forever..reality is still reality..future is still so far ahead of us and seriously life is too short for us to waste.
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So dear friends..please come back to sense..this is the reality..things won't be as perfect anymore even if you manage to save the relationship..The word "force" shouldn't even exist in a relationship. So what if you manage to force the person back by your side? Physically he/she is with you..but mentally? What I think is..since that person you love have chosen another path..the path without you..Let he/she be..since you love him/her..set him/her free. Give one another sometime? Maybe one day he/she might think you are the best for him/her and come back to your side? When that day come..maybe he/she will cherish you more? Since he/she realise your importance?
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lol. I sound like some love consultant here..but I guess I am NOT in the position to talk much too :( ..I am quite inexperience in bgr thingy. But I really hope it did helps a little to bring my friends back to sense? :) We live life for once..live it to the fullest ok? Don't waste life..especially to people who do not know how to treasure you. Call me..I will be there for you :)
Remember what I say " THE BEST IS YET TO BE" :) so..keep thinking of this phrase k?
Who knows another guy might be standing at the other end of the road..waiting for your arrival? He might be so much better than your current bf/gf?
So..leave everything to fate k? :) Is predestinate-d.
Goodnight lovelies :) No matter how tough life is..don't forget to hold your head high up..stay strong and move on..things happen to us for a reason..maybe he/she just not meant to be your husband/wife?
So stay happy dearies :) Sweet dreams.
I am in my dreamland while typing this..haha..too tired :(
goodnight :)
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Nice people I met last week :) Afew not in pics..eg. veronica :)
Though it is just a simple runway show..I am really glad many of my friends turn up!
Especially, Shilin, Penny, ZhiXian, HuiJia, Jennica... Love you!
Thanks for being such a AWESOME friend :)
and really thanks Ting for asking me about my 21st birthday..how many kg of cake I want etc.
Feel really touched! Is usually through small little things..that you realize how much your friends care about you. I love you - my friends! :)
Sorry for the lack of updates lovelies! I guess is time for me to have a new blog skin. I lost my enthusiasm in blogging for quite sometime. Whenever I log in my Nuffnang account I feel really guity. Thanks for popping by to check on my boring life :) Life have been really busy for me after the super short 2 weeks break from school..I have been a good girl.. Attend-ed most of the lessons..though I admit I still skip lectures. What caused the tremendous change in me? Answer - I receive a warning letter from school on Christmas eve! My mum thought school send me greeting card. -__-" It really ruin my happy mood of counting down to Christmas lo. Spoiler.. but please don't learn bad things from me ok? I skip lesson doesn't mean I don't bother about my studies..Just that lectures is totally useless to me..even if I go..I will just stone there or look around. So I save the time to catch some sleep. This is not an excuse ok? Everyone learn things differently..and to me last minute self revision works! I don't know why school don't understand such a simple logic..I feel like I am in primary or secondary school when attendance is so much of an importance. -__-" OMG!
Future is just a few weeks away..thinking about it..really sends shiver down my spine! What should I do next? I am still waiting for "fate" to decide for me. I really don't know what I want in life. Haiz..maybe I shall worry for tomorrow first? International Business test and International Human Resource Management presentation..Lol. I can't wait for tomorrow to be over :)
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Anyway..hope everyone is doing well in whatever you are doing..Life is never easy! So take things easy ok? Goodnight lovelies..I will try to find back my enthusiasm in blogging :)
Future is just a few weeks away..thinking about it..really sends shiver down my spine! What should I do next? I am still waiting for "fate" to decide for me. I really don't know what I want in life. Haiz..maybe I shall worry for tomorrow first? International Business test and International Human Resource Management presentation..Lol. I can't wait for tomorrow to be over :)
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Anyway..hope everyone is doing well in whatever you are doing..Life is never easy! So take things easy ok? Goodnight lovelies..I will try to find back my enthusiasm in blogging :)
