Thursday, January 21, 2010
Often..things are easier said than done..but..
To all my dearest friends..it seems like a breaking up season to me lately..many of my friends call-ed me to share with me their heart breaking news..Somehow..It reminds me the feeling of losing someone you love..I exactly know how they are feeling..because I once experienced break up too! I know many people thought I got Zillions of ex boyfriend. But hellow!...I only have one! I am someone..who seek for long lasting relationship..I want a husband..not a boyfriend.So don't have this wrong impression of me :) Some of my close friends thought I got many ex boyfriends too.. -__-" lol. See..this is how "much" you know about me..lol
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The feeling of losing someone is..
like as if you are left swimming alone in the ocean? No one to hold on too? The feeling is super duper "lost." Like as if you can't breathe without the person? Or don't know what to do next..
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I don't know if others feel the same too? because I got friends who change gf/bf like "changing clothes"? every now and then change. Does it means that they don't feel sad at all? I dono.. :(
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But no matter how sad "the feeling" can be..we can't live in the fairytale dream forever..reality is still reality..future is still so far ahead of us and seriously life is too short for us to waste.
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So dear friends..please come back to sense..this is the reality..things won't be as perfect anymore even if you manage to save the relationship..The word "force" shouldn't even exist in a relationship. So what if you manage to force the person back by your side? Physically he/she is with you..but mentally? What I think is..since that person you love have chosen another path..the path without you..Let he/she be..since you love him/her..set him/her free. Give one another sometime? Maybe one day he/she might think you are the best for him/her and come back to your side? When that day come..maybe he/she will cherish you more? Since he/she realise your importance?
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lol. I sound like some love consultant here..but I guess I am NOT in the position to talk much too :( ..I am quite inexperience in bgr thingy. But I really hope it did helps a little to bring my friends back to sense? :) We live life for once..live it to the fullest ok? Don't waste life..especially to people who do not know how to treasure you. Call me..I will be there for you :)
Remember what I say " THE BEST IS YET TO BE" :) so..keep thinking of this phrase k?
Who knows another guy might be standing at the other end of the road..waiting for your arrival? He might be so much better than your current bf/gf?
So..leave everything to fate k? :) Is predestinate-d.
Goodnight lovelies :) No matter how tough life is..don't forget to hold your head high up..stay strong and move on..things happen to us for a reason..maybe he/she just not meant to be your husband/wife?
So stay happy dearies :) Sweet dreams.
I am in my dreamland while typing this..haha..too tired :(
goodnight :)
15 Comments:
What a meaningful post. May I know why you and your ex bf broke up? Thanks in advance babe. Seriously I hope I am one of your many friends. I guess you are someone people would turn to when they are feeling sad. You seems like someone who care about others. I envy your simple and yet gorgeous life. Hope you share with us your daily life more often :)
Well said. Friends is the best medicine to recover from break ups. I guess your friends are lucky to have you by their side. :) Hope to see more of your pretty face pics. You look really sweet in person. Saw you at NYP mac afew times :) I am Joel Soh from Sch of Engineering. Hope one day can get to chat with you in person :) Take care babe.
GOOD GOOD post ! indeed it's a breaking up season. :(
By the way, buy Wifi blocker to block all secret transmitters in your room or at work.
Seems like I am not the only one breaking up with me bf :( Babe, guys don't seems to feel sad after break ups? Why is that so? How you manage to feel less upsad after break ups? You seems like a strong girl to me. Is a lost for your ex bf.
never hear you mention about your ex bf before ma..so i thought you got too many to mention. Sorry la. Haha. You so many suitors.. Always go out with you sure have at least one guy ask your number..how i know you only got 1 ex. Lol. But the way u reject guys..really damn cool. Give no face la. Hope guys who want to ask your number see this comment. So that they can save face. Hahaha.
but. Thanks for being there when i am feeling low. Ever thought you are always busy..but you really sacrifice for friends. Thanks so much. Esp that midnight..i call you at 4plus am. You came to fetch me home. Babe, ur bf is lucky to have you. Not only pretty, but have the kindness heart. The way you care for others..makes me feel like turning to lesbian. Haha. Joking. Lol. I sure like u if i am a guy! Take care in vietnam!
I no bf dont need worry =P babe babe sentosa sentosa. The white bikini i brought touch water wont become transparent de le. sua ku! u living in the 60's ah?
sw to avid reader -> Thanks :) My life aren't as good as what you think? Maybe I am good at hiding my sad feelings. Haha. People tend to think others lead a better life..But that might not always be true..? Be happy for who you are..everyone is unique in this world :)and..to answer to your ques..I guess we are too young back then? Don't know how to deal with many issues? Sometimes is the timing..We met at the wrong time maybe? :)
sw to Joel soh -> Thanks. Ha. You saw me in sch before? How you know me? lol.
sw to Eunice -> What happen? :( Lets meet up for jogging or go swimming ok? :) Cheer up. :)
sw to anonymous -> annoying. don't advertise on my comment box. Omg.
sw to just a reader of yours -> Guys do feel sad..but they don't express their feelings to others? Feel less sad by keeping yourself occupied? Spend more time with friends and family..spend more time for yourself too :) Anyway.. I guess I am good at acting? I am not as strong as what you think. Just that I don't like to show others the sad side of me :) Stay strong girl :) May everything be smooth at your side. Take care.
sw to Christine Yim -> LOL. Omg. I don't want to waste others time ma. Like me for what? I only got 1 heart..Can only give to one person. haha. wa. Thanks har..no one dare to ask me number le. see your comment they all run away from me le. haha. You still dare to say..don't drink la. Midnight make me go such place to find you..I very scare that day lo. Got so many drunkards. Lucky nothing happen to us. Next time cannot go. Meet me go eat supper instead la. haha.
sw to Sandra -> lol. hao la. Go la. Next week when? I don't want to swim..white very transparent la. I live in 40's leh.. =P
Curious, you and your ex bf together how long? I have been reading your blog. From daisy-loves.blogspot.com to predestinate--d to predestinate-d. But never once you mention about your ex. Did you ex break your heart till you hate him? that's why you never mention about him? Can tell us who is he? I guess many people reading your blog are curious.
I'm okies. When ? Let me know cos I'm still jobless. LOL !
I saw you many times. My friends all know your name too. You look really sweet when you smile. I know you because I got one friend name crystal, she reads your blog. Hope you don't mind me commenting here. Hope can see you tomorrow.
sw to Eunice -> Ok :) I sms you. I kinda busy lately :( Have to stay in sch for projects. damn sian lo. :(
sw to Joel -> Ic. Nah..I don't mind :) See you around in sch.
sw to Eunice -> Ok :) I sms you. I kinda busy lately :( Have to stay in sch for projects. damn sian lo. :(
sw to Joel -> Ic. Nah..I don't mind :) See you around in sch.
Thanks v much babe. My bf dump me for another girl. I guess you won't understand how I feel. Because pretty girls like you, bf will treat you like gold. Thanks for your long reply though, you are a nice girl :)
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